Him? Community Guidelines

• Only share first-hand experiences. Do not spread rumours, hearsay, or second-hand claims.

• Clearly separate opinions ("I felt unsafe…") from statements of fact ("This person did X on Y date").

• Treat all members with respect, even when disagreeing.

Child Sexual Abuse Material (CSAM): Strictly prohibited. Any suspected CSAM is blocked immediately and reported to the Internet Watch Foundation (IWF).

Nudity, pornography, or sexually explicit content: Not allowed. Him? is not an NSFW platform.

Illegal activity of any kind (including drugs, violence, fraud, or hate speech) is prohibited.

• Do not post personal contact details (addresses, phone numbers, emails, social media handles).

• Do not "doxx" or attempt to identify individuals beyond what is already in your own experience.

• No impersonation or pretending to be another person.

• Harassment, bullying, intimidation, hate speech, or discriminatory remarks will not be tolerated.

• Do not encourage violence or threats against anyone.

• Targeting someone repeatedly or maliciously is grounds for suspension or banning.

• Posts should focus on dating safety and experiences, not revenge, shaming, or gossip.

• Think before you post: would sharing this help the community stay safer?

• Avoid sensational, inflammatory, or exaggerated claims.

• All uploads (including images) are checked by automated tools (IWF Image Intercept, Microsoft PhotoDNA, AI classifiers) and may be reviewed by human moderators.

• If you see content that violates these rules, use the flag/report button.

• Our team reviews reports promptly and may remove content or suspend accounts.

• Repeated or serious violations may lead to a permanent ban.

• Breaking these rules can result in warnings, content removal, temporary suspension, or permanent account closure.

• In cases of illegal content (e.g. CSAM, threats, harassment), we will report to the IWF or relevant authorities.

• We may preserve and share information with law enforcement if required by law.

• If your content is removed, you can request a review.

• If you are the subject of a post and believe it is false or defamatory, you can file a Notice of Complaint under our Defamation Policy.

• You may also request a correction or contextual update where appropriate.