A safe space for women to share, support, and look out for one another while dating
Join a trusted community built for women. Share real experiences, get alerts about potential dates, and connect with others who prioritise safety.
What is Him?
Him? is a UK-based community created for women. We believe in the power of shared experiences and community-driven safety in modern dating. Every feature is created with women's protection, trust, and empowerment at its core.
Safety First, Always
Him? has been designed from day one with women's safety as the top priority. From reporting to alerts, every tool is designed to protect and empower our community.
Features That Protect & Connect
Comprehensive tools to help women stay safe, while building genuine connections.
Verified Green Flags
See what other women have said about the good guys, and share your own experiences.
Flag & Report System
Call out unwanted or concerning behaviour, anonymously if you choose.
Community Forum
Connect with other women, share advice, and support each other in a moderated space.
Smart Alerts
Be notified when new posts match your criteria, helping you make more informed decisions
Private Messaging
Safely connect one-to-one with trusted women in the community.
Safety Check-ins
Let trusted friends monitor your dates with automatic check-ins and emergency alerts.
Join a Growing Community
Be part of the first wave of women shaping Him?, building trust and making smarter dating choices together.
"Him? helped me avoid a potentially dangerous situation. The community's experiences gave me the confidence to make an informed decision."
— Sarah, 28, London
"It feels like having a group of big sisters looking out for you in the dating world. Supportive, empowering, and safe."
— Maya, 24, Manchester
Built with Safety at the Core
Ready to Join Him?
Be among the first to join a women-led community for dating smarter, safer, and stronger together.